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The Unity of Desire: Finding All in Jesus.

Psalm 73:25: “Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you.”

Sep 02, 2025 · 5 mins read
The Unity of Desire: Finding All in Jesus.

The idea that “all I want is found in Jesus” can feel like a lofty statement when, in reality, we find ourselves pulled in countless directions by desires that seem unrelated, even fragmented. We want love, we want meaningful work, we want stability, we want adventure, we want recognition, we want comfort. On the surface, these desires look scattered and disconnected from the simple claim that Jesus is enough and Jesus is all. Yet Christian theology and practice suggest that these many wants, when traced to their roots, find both their source and their fulfillment in Christ. The process of unifying our diverse longings into Him requires both theological reflection and practical surrender, and it unfolds as a lifelong relationship with God.

At the heart of the Christian vision of desire is the belief that God created us with the capacity for longing. Our physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual desires are not accidents of human experience but part of the way we were designed. Augustine of Hippo captured this when he prayed, “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in you.” The restlessness of human desire, then, is not proof that something is wrong with us; it is proof that we are searching for something greater than the temporary satisfactions of this world. When we crave love, we are ultimately yearning for the unchanging, selfless love which is found in God and revealed in Christ. When we chase success, we are searching for purpose and significance, which Jesus provides through calling and service in whatever sphere. Even our desire for beauty and pleasure is a reflection of our deeper hunger to delight in God’s goodness and beauty.

The challenge arises when our desires become misaligned, when we pursue them apart from God, or when we elevate them above Him. Wealth, for example, can become an idol when it is chased for its own sake, but behind that desire is often a longing for security, which Christ offers in a way no material possession can. Relationships can become distorted if we expect another person to fulfill us completely, yet that same longing can be redeemed when it is rooted in Jesus’ unconditional love. The danger is not in having desires but in pursuing them without recognizing their deeper orientation toward God.

Unifying our desires in Jesus begins with honesty. We must take time to name the things we want, whether it’s a career path, a new home, companionship, or achievement, and then ask why we want them. Beneath each surface-level desire lies a more fundamental need: belonging, safety, meaning, peace, comfort, love, approval. Once uncovered, we can begin to see how Jesus speaks to each one. This doesn’t mean abandoning earthly desires, but it does mean surrendering them to Him in prayer and asking that they be purified. Jesus Himself modeled this surrender in Gethsemane when He prayed, “Not my will, but yours be done.” When we submit our desires in this way, we allow God to sift them, sometimes fulfilling them, sometimes reshaping them, sometimes teaching us contentment in their absence.

Integration happens when Jesus is not simply one desire among many, but the hub around which all our other wants revolve. Imagine your life as a wheel: your career, relationships, creativity, rest, and ambitions are spokes. Left disconnected, they seem fragmented, pulling in different directions. But when they are anchored in Christ at the centre, they hold together in balance and can move forward with unity. A desire for career success becomes an opportunity to glorify God with your gifts. A desire for family becomes an arena for practicing love, forgiveness, and selflessness. Even a desire for material things can be redirected toward generosity and service. Nothing is wasted; everything can be drawn back into Him.

This does not mean every desire will be fulfilled in the way we imagine. Some longings may remain unmet, and some may even conflict with God’s will. In these moments, the call is to trust God’s timing and provision, remembering that unmet desires can deepen dependence on Him. When certain desires are revealed to be sinful or harmful, the invitation is to repent and allow His Spirit to transform them. The Apostle Paul spoke of finding contentment “in every circumstance,” not because every want was satisfied, but because he had learned that Christ Himself was enough.

Practically, this unifying process requires constant engagement with Jesus through prayer, worship, and Scripture. These practices recalibrate the heart, shifting our perspective from chasing fulfillment in the world to finding it in Him. It also requires community, mentors, friends, maybe good books, and the church, which can help us discern whether our desires are aligned with God’s purposes or drifting into idolatry. It requires humility, acknowledging that even good desires can become consuming if they are not rooted in Christ. Above all, it requires grace, because we will never fully master our desires. Sanctification is a lifelong process, and God’s grace is sufficient to cover the tensions, missteps, and lingering restlessness we experience along the way.

To say that “all I want is found in Jesus” or “Jesus is my All in All”  is not to deny the diversity of human longing but to affirm that behind every longing is a deeper desire that He alone can meet. He is love for the lonely, purpose for the ambitious, peace for the anxious, joy for the restless, and life for the weary. When we allow Him to be the centre, our scattered wants do not disappear, but they are gathered, reoriented, and fulfilled in ways that lead us closer to wholeness. In Him, even the most fragmented desires begin to make sense, because the restless heart finally finds its home.

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Elsey Jelimo
Written by Elsey Jelimo
Learning to live and love like Jesus.